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The Internet Game - 03/30/07

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Jennifer and Maria are playing a game on the computer when they are interrupted by a phone call from Keisha.

 

What is the problem?

03-30-07: Hennigan School • Grade 5 • Boston, Massachusetts:
I think the problem is that Kiesha calls Jennifer telling her to go to a chat room. Then Jennifer tells Maria to get off the game and let her go to the chat room. When they get on the chat room Maria sees that someone nominated Chris, Maria's friend as the dummest person of the week. Elvis

I think the problem is that Maria thinks that the website is wrong because the people are saying things that are not true. Leonedis

What the problem is that Jennifer was talking on the phone with another friend and her friend tells Jennifer to go to this chat room and she tells her other friend that's in the room with her to go to this website that makes fun of people and Maria doesn't know if she should go to that. Janisel

03-30-07: Truro Central School • Grade 5 • Truro, Massachusetts:
I think the problem is that Jennifer is thinking that the chat room is cool, but Maria doesn't like it because they are talking about one of her friends, Chris. Sam Mc

03-30-07: St. Joseph School • Grade 5 • Haverhill, Massachusetts:
I think the problem is that Maria didn't want to go on the site and Jennifer did so I think Maria’s conscience was telling her that that was wrong. Victoria

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What can you do when a friend is pressuring you to do something you think is wrong?

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03-30-07: Hennigan School • Grade 5 • Boston, Massachusetts:
I think the problem is that who ever wrote the message about Chris shouldn't write it because you never know if the person that people are talking about read the message they post and it might hurt the person’s feelings. Nelsmarie

I think the problem is that Jennifer told Maria to go to a chat room to gossip about other people but Maria didn’t think the gossip is funny because it’s hurtful to other people. Saday

The problem is that Jennifer thinks it is really funny what they write about Chris, but when Maria realizes it's her friend, she gets really mad but Jennifer says is only a joke. Caroline

03-30-07: St. Joseph School • Grade 5 • Haverhill, Massachusetts:
I think that it wasn't nice of Jennifer to just say it's a joke when it's not! Because Maria said that she didn't feel cool with it. Danielle

03-30-07: Truro Central School • Grade 5 • Truro, Massachusetts:
I think the problem is that Maria doesn't want to go into the chat room because she doesn't want to make fun of her friend. Jennifer is trying to tell her it was just a joke. I don't think it's a joke, I think it's mean for them to do it. Etel

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How do you know if something is a joke or something is mean?

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03-30-07: St. Joseph School • Grade 5 • Haverhill, Massachusetts:
I don’t think it would be fun because that to me is not that very nice. Victoria

What could Maria have done differenty in this situation?

03-30-07: St. Joseph School • Grade 5 • Haverhill, Massachusetts:
If I was Maria then I would tell Chris that people are talking about her and tell her that I was not a part of it and not to worry because people will forget about it and people that write those kind of things aren't good people at all. Kasey

03-30-07: John R. Fausey School • Grade 5 • West Springfield, Massachusetts:
I think Maria should find out who wrote that message in the chat room and ask why they wrote it. Mason

If I was in Maria's situation I would suggest we talk about something else in the chat room and get others to join in our new conversation. I would want to talk about things that I know are true and would not hurt anyone's feelings. Elena

It's rude to have a friend nominated in a public place, like a chat room, for doing something that maybe is not true. Alina

I think it's not right to make fun of anyone because it's going to make that person feel bad. I don't like others to make fun of me! Caitlin

03-30-07: St. Joseph School • Grade 5 • Haverhill, Massachusetts:
I would probably tell Jennifer that she shouldn't be on these sites without permission. Molly

03-30-07: Hennigan School • Grade 5 • Boston, Massachusetts:
If I was Maria I would ask Mostly everyone in the school and see who was that person and ask them why did they do that. Janisel

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What can you do when you are in a situation where rumors are being spread?

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03-30-07: St. Joseph School • Grade 5 • Haverhill, Massachusetts:
If I heard a rumor that was about someone who was not my friend then I would just tell the person who spread it that that was not nice and that that could hurt their feelings. Victoria

Why do you think Keisha and Jennifer wanted to be join the web conversation?

03-30-07: Truro Central School • Grade 5 • Truro, Massachusetts:
I think this kind of thing goes on because instead of talking about people in school it's a way of talking about people where they can't find out about it but they may be able to. It's an anonymous way to talk behind people's backs. Liam

03-30-07: John R. Fausey School • Grade 5 • West Springfield, Massachusetts:
Kids do get in chat rooms because they want to talk to their friends instead of calling them on the phone. A chat room allows me to keep up with more than one person at a time. It's like a conference call for kids. Ataliah

03-30-07: St. Joseph School • Grade 5 • Haverhill, Massachusetts:
Websites like that chat-room are bad news. They don't talk about real things just things that are made up! Kasey

What could any of the kids do to make the situation better?

03-30-07: Hennigan School • Grade 5 • Boston, Massachusetts:
The solution is to report this to the school and then try to find who nominated Chris. Elvis

03-30-07: Truro Central School • Grade 5 • Truro, Massachusetts:
If this was happening outside of school I would IM my friend to tell them what was happening. If my friend did not have IM I would call them to let them know what was happening. If it was really bad I would tell my Mom. Courtney

03-30-07: St. Joseph School • Grade 5 • Haverhill, Massachusetts:
I think that if Keisha knew that Maria were more safer about these things then Jennifer and she knew that she was at Maria's house she should not have called. If she cares about Maria. Anonymous


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